Is Kopi Date for me?
By joining our community, you'll be surrounded by like-minded individuals who are dedicated to intentional dating. If you share these values and are looking to grow alongside others, then we'd love to have you be part of our community.
It's PERFECT for you if:
✅ You believe that healthy relationships are essential to a fulfilling life.
✅ You appreciate depth and authenticity in conversations. If you're someone who values engaging in genuine conversations over surface-level chatter, you'll feel right at home in our community.
✅ You value personal growth adopt a growth-mindset.
✅ You are committed to building long-lasting relationships.
✅ You are tired of the superficiality of online dating apps and crave a more genuine and meaningful connection.
✅ You value quality over quantity when it comes to relationships. We focus on creating meaningful connections rather than accumulating dates. If you value a small number of meaningful relationships over a large number of superficial ones, Kopi Date aligns with your approach.
✅ Approach life with curiosity and a willingness to learn, and who are open to different perspectives and ideas.
✅ You are willing to step out of your comfort zone. Growth often happens when we push ourselves beyond our comfort zones.
It's NOT for you if:
❌ You expect a magic pill. True connections take time, patience, and a willingness to put yourself out there, engage in meaningful conversations, and be open to the possibilities that may arise. We encourage our members to approach dating with a realistic mindset and an understanding that it is a journey of self-discovery and exploration.
❌ You prefer to stick to the superficial world of online dating apps, where genuine connections are often overshadowed by swipe culture.
❌ You are only interested in casual hookups or quick flings.
❌ You are not open to exploring diverse perspectives and backgrounds.
❌ You are not ready to show up as your most authentic self and be vulnerable in conversations.
❌ You adopt a fixed mindset towards life and are resistant to personal growth and self-discovery.
If you're someone who values building genuine connections and personal growth, we would love for you to join us at Kopi Date. We believe that a warm, slow-brewed conversation over a cup of coffee is the perfect setting to foster these types of connections.
Of course, we understand that our community might not be for everyone. If you're not looking for just a casual quick fling, that's okay too. But if you're ready to explore a more fulfilling and genuine approach to dating, we would love to have you join our community at Kopi Date.
So, come as you are and let's explore the world of authentic connections, one cup of coffee at a time.
Why Kopi Date?
A hassle-free experience for working professionals
Kopi Date offers the easiest, most stress-free way to meet interesting people. Leave the work to us and take swiping off your to-do list 🚀
Celebrating individuality
We celebrate what makes you, you! We’ll use this information to help curate the best dates for you.
Save >10 hours a week on dating apps
Say goodbye to fake profiles, endless swiping & meaningless texting.
A curated community
Every member is curated, screened and personally onboarded to ensure the best fit for our community.
A guided journey
We’re available on WhatsApp and email for any membership or date enquiries.
Focus on great conversations
Our experiences are designed to enable meaningful connection through conversation.
Authenticity & intention
Our members value genuine connection over superficial exchanges.
Affordable
Explore new cafes and meet new people without breaking the bank.
Personal Growth
Receive monthly personal growth content to learn more about yourself.
Simplicity and mindfulness
A casual setting that prioritises enjoyable journey over rigid destination.
Ever wondered if there's more to dating than soulless swiping and awkward set-ups?
At Kopi Date, we think there is.
We take a step back from the superficial world of modern dating and focus on what truly matters: genuine, human connections. Our thoughtfully-curated 1:1 coffee meet-ups ditch the clichés and create space for real conversations to flourish.
So, if you're yearning for authentic first dates and a chance to build lasting connections, Kopi Date is the answer.
Organic First Dates
(A defence)
Have you ever felt like dating apps treat you like just another number? Like you're just a profile to be swiped left or right.
At Kopi Date, we believe that dating should be about more than just a photo and quick bio, moving away from meaningless texting and swiping mindlessly.
That's why we've created an experience that's as unique and personal as you are. Each Kopi Date is thoughtfully-curated to bring together two individuals for a long-term fulfilling relationship. It's like we're playing people-connectors, but with a twist - we're not just looking at surface-level traits, but at the essence of who you are as a person.
And speaking of twists, we like to keep things fresh and exciting. You never know who you'll meet or where your conversation will take you. Maybe you'll discover a new favourite coffee shop, or find out you have a mutual love for obscure indie bands.
The possibilities are endless, and that's what makes Kopi Date so special.
So don't settle for being just another profile in a sea of faces.
It's time to humanise the dating process and start making real, lasting connections.
